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CRISIS CENTER OFFERS SOLACE TO VICTIMS OF SEX ASSAULT


The Rape Crisis Center's trained counselors help more than 1,100 women in Santa Clara County each year.


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By TRACIE WHITE / Special to the Mercury News

jiovanna knows what it's like when her clients are waiting without any clothes in a cold hospital bathroom.

They've been through a forensic process that lasts for hours. They've given blood. Been photographed. Undergone a medical exam. Answered questions in detail about the sexual assault that occurred just a short time before.

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Counselors at the YWCA of Santa Clara Valley's Rape Crisis Center provide items of clothing such as these to women who have been sexually assaulted.
(Susanna Frohman / Mercury News)

And when the exam is finally over, they usually don't have any clothes to wear home because the police have kept their underwear, skirt or pants, sometimes even shoes, as possible evidence.

For Jiovanna, it was 5 a.m. before she could finally go home the morning after she was raped. She'd been at Valley Medical Center for four hours undergoing the forensic exam. She was waiting for a pair of pants to put on.

"It can be very traumatic all over again, and humiliating,'' says Jiovanna, 27, who is now a counselor in training for the YWCA of Santa Clara Valley's Rape Crisis Center. "But the advocates made it so much better.''

Santa Clara County law enforcement agencies record an average of 500 to 600 sexual assault cases a year and the Rape Crisis Center counselors respond to each one, ready to help the victims through the ordeal of the exam.

At the end of it all, when the victim is finally ready to go home, the center's clothes closet can play a key role in helping the victim regain some dignity.

But too often, counselors have trouble finding what they need in the closet.

Victims of sexual assault are young and old, male and female, tiny to extra-large. That means the YWCA needs to keep on hand a wide variety of sizes in underwear, sweats, socks and shoes.

Jiovanna went home from Valley Med the morning after her attack in a pair of blue sweat pants from the clothes closet. Hard as it was, she's glad she went through with the forensic exam. Her attacker went to jail for just four days, but she says it was worth it.

"At least I felt that I did everything in my power to make sure that he was punished for what he did,'' she says.

Each donation of $20 would go toward the purchase of clothing that would be available in a variety of sizes when it's needed next.

For more information on YWCA in Santa Clara Valley, go to www.ywca-scv.org.

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